Dad was fighting with mom about disciplining my sister and I. She was upset thinking we weren't getting enough punishment. It was over something little like a dish in the sink or something. It was the 3rd or 4th family meeting in a week and we were all miserable and OVER everything. As usual, mom … Continue reading Memory Drop
I heard a tidbit today…
that really resonated with me. "Trauma is someone doing things to you they shouldn't have. But its also becoming known that its someone withholding things from you that they shouldn't have." Whoa dude.
She did nothing
I went no contact with my mom many years ago when we had a big blow up over Mother's Day in 2015 that ended with her physically assaulting me. I left swearing she'd never see me again with she yelled back "Good!" The average person looking at that would say "Oh it was all said … Continue reading She did nothing
Names
My husband and I were watching a show "Tulsa King" the other night. In it Sylvester Stalone says something like "...wanna find out, F*ckface?" In the moment we laughed. It was a funny line in a tense scene. But I immediately remembered the first time I'd heard that name. My mom had called me that. … Continue reading Names
Weeds
This piece is rhythmic. This piece looks insecurity in the eyes. This piece tells you what still goes on in the mind of someone with a toxic mom in their life. Specifically a mom with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. If you have little ears and little hearts near you for tender teachable moments in their … Continue reading Weeds
The Mild Millennial 